Mistake #1: Being an Open Book
When a woman meets someone she really likes,
she can't help but share her feelings with him. She talks about
her life experiences, personal history, and past relationships in an attempt to impress
him and show him that she is perfect for him. Moreover, she confesses
her feelings to him and lets
him know how much she likes him early on,
very, very early on...
If a man is logical, he'll very much appreciate
this kind of openness. But the reality is, when it comes to attraction,
a man is NOT logical. He's emotional! He acts according to
how he feels, rather than what makes sense.
This means, he may rationally, LOGICALLY
think you are the best match for him.
But if he doesn't feel that spark on a GUT
LEVEL, he will leave. This is one of the reasons why some guys leave a woman who,
in every sense of the world, seems perfect for him.
To make a guy feel that gut level attraction,
he has to wonder about two
things at the beginning:
(a) Does she like me?
(b) What's up with her?