I remember many years ago, when my mum will say in yoruba
language that “ile oko, ile eko ni” literally meaning “your husband’s house is
a place for learning”. I was a teenager at the time and marriage was the last
thing on my mind…so I called her bluff….typical teenager stuff and wondered
what on earth I would probably learn in my husband’s house. I mean she already
taught me how to cook, clean and be a lady. *winks*
Some years later, I found out about love, started dating and couldn’t wait
to be married. She echoed it once again and this time I really must have
chuckled out loud. I mean, I was filled with love with my knight in shinning
armour was showering me with affection and other fun things associated with
dating…hehehehehehe.