Dress to please him and not other
women
Often times we ignore the desires
of that man we claim to love just because we want to make a state among
friends. I may excuse you if you are in just a dating relationship with him,
but the moment you take that relationship a step further into courtship, you
must start seeing yourself as the glory of that man.
Being the glory of a man means you
are now to dress the way he wants and how he wants it. Don’t fix that hairstyle
or lashes because they are in vogue and your friends have them on. Don’t go for
a short or long dress without first knowing what he admires in women. If you go
ahead dressing for your friends and not for him, chances are he may end up
getting attracted to a woman who dresses the way he wants.
Being respected
is more important than being loved
Civilization is good, but it has
also done so much to destroy our values. Women used to allow their husbands
discuss privately with friends, business partners, and relations. I know some
men still download everything for the woman once they get into the bedroom
(this is highly commendable), but it would be nice if you allow him be in the
presence of friends and relations.
There is a place that is for the
man alone in every relationship. How do you think he feels knowing you call him
all sorts of names and slap him in public only to wake up the next morning
professing love without end? I know you are too educated and civilized to allow
a man toy with you, but the truth remains that he will toy with you once in a
while. No amount of love can take the place of respect for a man in a
relationship.
He wants to be envied for having
you
I believe you know what this
means. Your man wants to be praised, honoured, and called blessed by his
friends just for having you as his wife. A good wife will ever remain the crown
and glory of her husband. Your man cannot be proud to have you by his side when
all you do is fight on the street and gossip from one house to the other.
Ladies, please try to brush up a
bit especially when you find your husband moving to a higher position.
This could be the reason he does
not take you along to business dinner and his company’s end of the year party.
Please step up a bit and learn how to make heads turn whenever you walk in. You
should know how to dress to suit all occasions.
I also advise women to make
efforts to move higher in their education whenever they see a man aspiring for
a new status at work. He wants to be able to flaunt you before his friends and
colleagues without the fear of you acting or doing something to tarnish his
image. Don’t let him start looking for the very educated ones to relate with;
get up and get some good education.
Cigarettes make you cheap and easy
You may not agree with this, but I
know a good number of people think this way. This has nothing to do with
timidity, but the first impression people have about you when they see you
smoke as a woman is that you are not a happy person, you are very cheap and one
of those women who live in the club, you have no morals and good upbringing,
and you are simply frustrated.
He wants you to have high
self-esteem
It does not take too much effort
to know a woman with very high self esteem. A woman that is high in self-esteem
will never waste her precious time discussing other people. A woman with a very
high self-esteem does not live a life of constant suspicion. You are making
life miserable for him and nagging him out of the house just because you have
failed to deal with the terrible disease called low self-esteem.
He loves it when you smile
A woman who smiles has a way of
reaching the deepest part of a man’s heart. A woman of cheerful countenance
finds her husband and even his friends addicted to her. There is nothing as
healing and soothing to a man as his wife opening the door for him with a
cheerful face. There is this glory and aura that surrounds you when you have a
free spirit.
Listen more
Be a very good listener, learn how
to keep calm and react only when necessary. Remember two wrongs don’t make a
right.
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